Every relationship as it has different meanings

By: Asma Shmas
It is difficult to define every relationship as it has different meanings and boundaries to all members involved. We can all agree they are made of years and moments of significant memories, experiences and interactions to create layers of complex emotions and motivations.
It is important to keep a check on your relationship as small gestures are the simple things that can easily change the dynamic of relationships whether romantic or platonic.
Here are small tips to create a healthy and positive impact on your relationship:
•Tip #1: Start the day on a positive note- Keep your interactions positive especially first thing in the morning with your family. Instead of an angry reminder for things not done or need to be done try to start the day with a pleasant good morning and interest in your family’s day.
•Tip #2: Reach out to your loved ones- The age of cell phones and emails makes it incredibly easy to reach out to others during a lazy or mundane moment to let them know they have crossed your thoughts. Reach out to your friend while waiting in line at the bank or grocery checkout and watch how quickly the interactions in your friendships increase.
•Tip #3: Be touching- A loving hug or warm smile can go a long way with your loved ones. We can pick up on subtle clues when others are genuinely excited to see us. Even brief moments of physical affection such as a quick hug or a pat on the back can go a long way. Imagine a tough moment in your life and the impact a hug and positive words made to you. Now pass that on!
•Tip #4: Double up! – Are you always on the run and too busy to keep up with your relationships? Grab a coffee for your loved one on your coffee run. Cooking something you really enjoy? Why not make some extra for a friend! These small selfless acts makes your loved one feel special and are positive building blocks for your relationships.
•Tip #5: Words are your best friend- All these acts might show your loved ones how much they mean to you over time but the power of words can never be replaced. All of us can remember a great compliment or a touching conversation we had with our friends or significant others. We can remember how close we felt to them in that moment and these moments are strongly attached to our memories with them.
Using some of these tools can help remind your loved ones that they are truly loved by you. We are often so busy in our lives that we lose touch with what is important in our lives and more importantly the ones who make our life beautiful. Acknowledging the areas that need to be addressed in your relationship is the first step and using these tips you can see a great change in your relationship with your loved ones. Let’s create a movement by actively taking the time to share love with each other in our daily lives.
Info: Asma Shums <asmashums@gmail.com