By: Asma Shmas
All of us must have heard this rant last week ranging from “What about Men’s Day?” or “When will men be appreciated?” However, that dies down after a few days. They don’t require anyone to approve their labels or give them titles or honorary days of appreciation. It seems as if they don’t complain about their circumstances and do not require any validation.
They continue to do what they want without requiring any permission from another person to give them the a-okay. Women should take this feature and do things they wish to do without the thought of asking if it would be acceptable. Men and women are equal, we all know that, but now it’s time to start acting like it internally. All human beings should act with qualities such as efficiency, compassion, kindness, and honesty in our daily lives.
There are however some differences between men and women that have to be addressed. Childbirth is truly a miracle and can only be done by a woman. The traits that follow such as event are difficult to encompass in words. Instead of looking at this as a burden, women should embrace that they truly can do magic. Take this opportunity to change the new generation by raising strong children who find their worth within themselves instead of relying on others for it. Teach them the traits of kindness, compassion, ambition, empathy, patience, and above all the ability of putting the needs of others above their own when required. Teach them to do good and live good. Society is changing rapidly and it is in our hands to teach our girls and boys to be the leaders all the men and women in the world need. We do not get our worth from others but we can surely be worthy in this world by the actions we take every day.
Two Wheels
Men and women are like the front and back wheels of a car. Both are equally important and do vital tasks necessary to speed, brake, and continue spinning. They are both different in their functions yet necessary in the functionality of a car. Let’s celebrate our role and abilities and be confident in them. As society progresses, our roles and presence will continue to improve from the damaging ways of the past.
Men often wonder how they can be a part of this process without causing any offense. Let us cherish the women in our life whether it be our wife, mother, daughter, sister, or friend. Let us be more aware in the signs of inequality and continue to support their goals and dreams. Fathers should be treating their mothers with respect to show their daughters the value of an equal relationship and unlearn habits that they have been practicing for years. Mothers should be teaching their daughters and sons about life without any bias towards one gender. Husbands need to shed the mentality of control over their wives as property and think about being in their shoes. And all of us should be treating our friends with support, respect, and love regardless if they are men or women. Keep your head up high and recognize your strengths. It’s no wonder even the word ‘Hero’ has ‘Her’ in it.
To all Women- Happy Woman’s Day! Someone will always be prettier, smarter, wealthier, and with better possessions and figure than you. But, let it go. Take care of yourself, love yourself, and appreciate your circumstances. The person with the best car and the best outfit might be unhappy in ways where you are more blessed. All of us are blessed in ways that we have to simply recognize. Having and being the best makes the No. 1 but being only you makes you unique.
Info: Asma Shums <asmashums@gmail.com
